I have not always been a music fan. Growing up, music was something that might or might not be on in the car as we travelled. Around our house, we listened to a lot of talk radio (which was way before talk radio became the cesspool of negativity that exists to attack anyone who disagrees with it.) WSB 750 in Atlanta seemed to always be on, with good reason. It was the station that shared the weather constantly and played the Braves, Bulldogs, Falcons, and Hawks games. Occasionally a pop station might get played, but not much. I do not believe that I cared about music until I was in middle school and a friend let me borrow his Creedence Clearwater Revival tape (“Bad Moon Rising” was the start.) Music changed for me that moment. Gone was bubble gum pop, and it was replaced with classic rock with lots of guitars and drums with the occasional, questionable lyric. My mom used to call the music I listened to “funeral music”, but what did she know – she was old and just didn’t understand (never mind I really loved the music from her youth.)

                Christian music was around, but only listened to on Sundays on the way to church, and that was mostly Amy Grant/Sandi Patty type of songs – songs I was not in to. It was mostly, at least to me, pop songs that simply replaced some mysterious person and his/her pronoun with Jesus. Sometimes these songs went the other way and replaced the name Jesus with some personal pronoun that would make the song less offensive. A youth minister changed that when he played Petra and Keith Green. Music that rocked about Jesus and was not simple little love songs. Petra and Keith Green were soon replaced with DC Talk (Jesus Freak is the single best Christian album ever produced and I am willing to fight over that) and Newsboys. Unnecessary silence was replaced with songs, real songs, about Jesus, and I needed it to get through my days.

                Eventually, many of these artists, such as Michael W. Smith, began to write praise and worship songs. Solo car rides (always solo-I do not sing loudly in front of anyone other than my family, and everyone else is thankful) were filled with both rocking Christian songs and praise and worship songs. It felt like I was actually singing,” I Could Sing of Your Love Forever”, forever, and it was great. Praise and worship songs soon found their way into youth services and then into church services. Some of these songs were good, some were not, but they were there.

                Of course, anytime a church tries anything new, there is bound to be resistance. Clearly a church could in no way sing both “Blessed Assurance” and “Shout to the Lord” in the same service. This brought forth the Great Worship Wars of the late ‘90’s and early ‘00’s where thousands were maimed and killed in this most deadly war (that is actually not true. No one died, but there were plenty of hurt feelings and church breakups.) Churches, even today, try to find a proper way to best bring musical worship into a church service.

                If you have bothered to read the last four paragraphs, you may be asking yourself where is this going? Not a bad question to ask because it is leading somewhere. Over the next week or so, I will write several articles about praising and worshipping God through music and its importance. It is something that I do consider important, and I hope that you will read each article with an open heart. You may not agree with my preferred style of music to worship with, but you should agree with the importance of worship. I hope to help us move to a much deeper and meaningful musical worship time in your private life and in our church life. For those of you to whom, music is not that important, maybe I will introduce you to a song or artist that changes your mind. It is impossible to completely separate songs with praise in the Bible, so in order to have a true sense of Biblical praise and worship we must sing and sing loudly and boldly. Hopefully, I will be able to help you with this. I am looking forward to this journey.


            Did you know that Shallow Well had rock stars? I do not mean like Mick Jagger or John Lennon rock stars, but people who are just as awesome as those guys. One thing I love about this church is that there are many of you who go above and beyond what is expected, and do it with joy and total commitment. In my book, that makes you a rock star (or something even better. If you do not like rock star change the term to something you like, maybe superduperstar or something.)

            Last weekend two of our Rockstar members (and one, who once was) went to prison. I mean behind barbed wire, with guards, and plenty of locks. What did they do wrong? Absolutely nothing. In fact, they voluntarily went there. They committed no crime, but they gave up their weekend to spend it in a maximum-security prison. But they didn’t just give up a weekend, they spent the last six months getting ready for this. Why would they do this? Simple. To share and show the love of Jesus to some women who truly needed it. They went to prison not as prisoners, but as people who could free prisoners from their spiritual chains. They became the hands, feet, and heart of Jesus. They invited Jennifer and me, to come to the closing, and it was extraordinary. Lives were changed through their work.

            So, who are our rock stars? They are Mary Griffin, Judy Watson, and Susan Thomas. They spent the weekend doing Kairos #9. If you do not know, Kairos means “God’s Special Time.” That is exactly what they made it (along with a lot of other women and workers.) I tried to think of how I could put into words what they did and experienced but realized I had no real idea about it. So, I asked them to. They responded by writing a few thoughts they had from their experience. I want to share them with you.

Kairos #9

Kairos #9 was an amazing weekend.  When the participants arrived for the weekend, they were happy to be there.  They were glad to finally be chosen for “their Kairos experience”.    One of the most touching moments of the weekend was when they first saw the prayer chain introduced.  Their first thought was “that is nice that people are praying”.  As the day went by, more and more prayer chain was introduced.  With tears in her eyes, one Inmate at my table said “this is the most amazing thing I have ever witnessed.  To think, these people are praying for us.  I never realized anyone cared what happened to us.”


The thing that occurs to me each time I go into the prison, is the fact that these inmates are people, like us, who have made wrong choices and poor decisions.  No matter what they have done, God loves them and offers them his forgiveness if they ask for it.  Should we do any less?  He forgives us when we sin, and he also forgives the Prisoner when they sin.  Many, on this Kairos weekend asked God to forgive them.  Their Christian walk will not be an easy one, so please keep them in your prayers.

Thank you for your donations, prayers and words of encouragement as we prepared and took part of the Kairos #9 Weekend.   Your support means a lot to us on the Kairos Team.

                See, I told you we had rock stars. People who go above and beyond what most people expect from them. People who put aside their fears, and shared the love of Jesus with people most of us would never get to talk to (and if we were honest, probably would not want to talk to.) The next time you see them, give them a big hug. Let them know how excited you are for their work. Maybe even ask them how you can get involved in such a magnificent work. They will be glad to share with you.

                When I was in college, I was taking a multi-culturalism class (this is just a fancy way of saying that we were learning about other cultures.) One of the assignments in the class was that each student was to go someplace where we would be a minority, and then report about the situation. I decided to go to an African-American church. I was very much the minority in the sanctuary. Everything was going great until the “welcome of guests” time. Everyone knew I was a guest. I stuck out pretty obviously. I figured I might have to raise my hand or something like that. It did not go down that way. The pastor asked all the guests to please stand and introduce themselves. I was the only guest. I was the only person standing. I happened to also be the only person that did not look like everybody else.

                I stood as nobly as I could, and tried my best to not let my voice squeak as I introduced myself. Every eye was on me. I am sure many of the people in the church were wondering why I had entered their church. There were a few suspicious eyes cast my way. After what seemed like a thousand minutes, I was finally able to sit down. Then the church stood up, and many of the church members came by to greet me. They were super nice and very welcoming. I enjoyed myself at that church so much, that the next week I brought two of my friends with me. Part of it was I could not wait to see them have to stand up in the church like I did. I “forgot” to tell them about that part of the service. The pastor congratulated me on bringing guests. I got an A on the assignment.

                Being a first-time guest at a church is a little scary, especially if you do not know people there. A church can be loaded with landmines. A guest will wonder a thousand different things like: is there a place for children, where are the bathrooms, am I sitting in someone else’s seat, do I have to give for the offering, will anyone talk to me, what is the quickest way out of the church if they start handling snakes? All of these thoughts (except for snakes-unless you are visiting a mountain church) can lead to a visitor not being able to enjoy their time at a church.

                I know that we do not have a ton of visitors, so you may not think it is important to think about these things right now. I disagree. There is an old business saying that goes, “dress for the job you want, not the job you have.” The idea is to always be proactive and thinking two or three steps ahead. If we wait to try to figure out how to make guests comfortable after God has started sending a lot of guests (and I believe that He will), we will have already let to many guests leave with the wrong impression.

                Thom Rainer, a man I have mentioned before, has spent most of his adult life studying churches with the goal of making them better. He regularly writes articles to churches about how to make guests feel more welcome. He has many suggestions, but I want to share a few with you. I think that these can and should be done by everyone. We should not think that it is somebody else’s job to make guests feel welcome. We should go out of our way to do this (without being creepy.) Here are a few things we should get in a habit to say to our guests:

“Thank you for being here.”

“Can I help you with anything?”

“Here is my email address. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask.”

“Let me introduce you to ___________________________”

“Do you have plans for lunch after the service? If not, we would love for you to come with my family.”

                I recognize that for many of you, this will take you out of your comfort zones. That is not a bad. A huge problem in any church is when we get too comfortable. We should be pushed to be different. Our goal should be to make guests feel much more comfortable than we feel. We never know what our acts of Christ-likeness will do for others. It may be the kindness that saves their lives, or introduces you to your new best friend. It may also have no immediate effect. Either way we will never go wrong with showing kindness and hospitality to our guests. I am pretty sure this is Biblical (It is! - 1 Peter 4:9.)

                As always, I love you, and let us strive to be even more like Jesus in everything that we do.

                Kids today, right? All they like to do is play video games and stare at their phones. It’s not like it was in my day. In my day, kids played outside all day and walked uphill, in blizzards to school, every day. Kids today, do not care about anything. They have no drive or ambition. I worry about the future if they are the ones who are going to be running it.

                Have you ever had those thoughts? Be honest. We all have. It seems to be the opinion of so many people today. Kids today are not what they used to be. It is easy to have these thoughts. They do play a lot of video games and they do spend a lot of time on their phones. They do not play outside as much as we did, and hopefully they never will have to walk uphill in a blizzard both ways to school, but let me tell you something – there is a lot more to them than we give them credit for.

                This month (August) I have had the privilege (and yes, I do mean privilege) to get to spend a lot of time with the kids of our church. I have come away very impressed with them. They are some of the hardest working people that I have met in a long time. Between the mission trip in Kentucky and working in the schools trying to get the teachers ready for school, the only job that they ever said no to was one involving spiders, and I had no problem with them not performing that task (I killed the spider.)

                It is easy to look at children today and claim that they have no idea what it was like back in our day, and how hard it was. It is true. Our day was different than theirs. If we are going to be honest, we must also acknowledge that we have no idea what it is like to be a kid today. The dangers kids face today, especially associated with the electronics, are a hundred times more dangerous than what we ever faced. In some ways, we did not have nearly the stuff they have, but they have many more dangers than we faced. I am not sure it is a fair trade.

                I say all of that to point out that kids today are not worse than when we were, just different. I believe that too many times we are too quick to point out the weaknesses of kids today. Sometimes the strengths of our kids need to be pointed out, too. I can say, without a doubt, that the kids at Shallow Well are awesome. I could not be more proud of the work that they have done this month.

                I do not agree with the thought that our kids are only the future of the church. I believe that they are the present and the future of the church. And from what I saw the last three weeks, the present and the future of Shallow Well is bright.

                “Through the praise of children and infants you have established a stronghold against your enemies, to silence the foe and the avenger.” Psalm 8:2


                Maybe you have noticed the tone of this country. Maybe you have noticed the constant fighting that people who disagree with each other keep doing. Maybe you have noticed how we seem to no longer be okay with disagreeing with each other. It now feels like it is not just about being right, but about destroying anyone who disagrees with us. I am tired of this. I’m tired of the ugliness. I’m tired of the anger. I’m tired of the backbiting, the whining, the complaining, and the hostility. I’m tired of feeling like we are all enemies. I’m tired of seeing us all arguing the same arguments while getting louder each time.

                Do not get me wrong. I do believe that it is okay to have opinions, and to be able to share your opinions. I am just tired of the way that we are doing it. It also bothers me when I see Christians become the antithesis of Christians when people disagree with them. I believe it is time for us to bring back civility into our world. I believe that this should fall at the feet of Christians. If we claim to follow Jesus, then we should act like it. So, how do we do this? I believe that in Romans, Paul gives us the answers:

14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. 15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. 16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight. 17 Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. 18 If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. 19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” 20 To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

                We must first start by blessing those who are our enemies. We are to bless them instead of cursing them. This is the opposite of how we tend to act. Someone does something bad to me, I want to see them pay. Paul tells us to bless them. This means that we are to ask God to bless their lives. I know this is hard, but this is what the Bible commands.

                 We need to start celebrating people’s successes and mourning with them during their tough times. If we became more supportive and compassionate, we would have less time, or desire, to fight with others. It is hard to get mean and nasty with people you do not know when you are spending your time with the people that need you.

                We are to live in harmony with one another. This does not mean that we must agree with each other, it just means that we do not pick fights with those who are different or believe differently than us. I have some absolute truths in my life that I will not compromise on. This does not mean I cannot be friends with people who feel differently than me (As a point of clarification this about the people we come into contact with, work with, or live near. A church, on the other hand, cannot allow unbiblical truths to become accepted in the church. We must stand for Biblical truths.). People need to know what I believe, but that does not mean that I get to be mean and nasty about my beliefs.

                Ultimately, we are to strive for peace when it is up to us. We have all seen in recent times that there are certain people or groups that will not chose to live in peace with others. There is nothing that we can do to insure peace. Fortunately, most of the people on this planet, do want to live in peace. We let the authorities over us, decide how to handle those who do not seek peace. Those who do seek it, we bring it to them. If this means that we should keep our mouths closed (especially when not involving Jesus), then we keep our mouths closed. Everyone does not need to know what we think about climate change or taxes. If my view on the designated hitter (that is a sports term for those of you who are not sports fans) gets people angry, then I need to keep it to myself.

                Finally, we need to trust in the Lord. Our enemies, if they are our enemies based on us living a Christian life, are God’s enemies. God clearly tells us that he will be the one who brings about vengeance. This should scare us. We should want no one to experience God’s vengeance, but if our lives and words cannot change them, then we let God avenge us. This frees us from having to be God, which we are all incapable of being.

                Let us remember Paul’s commands to us the next time a politician, comedian, athlete, etc., says something we disagree with. Our job is not to get angry and demand that they change their beliefs to be just like ours. Our job is to show and speak Jesus to them. The same goes for the next time a family member, neighbor, coworker, or friend says something that we do not like. Instead of continuing the ugliness of others, let us bring in Jesus. Our goal is to bring people to Jesus, not to simply win arguments or make sure our opinions are heard. If we strove to live more peaceably with others, maybe others would strive to live more peaceably also. Would it not be great if others started noticing that we, as Christians, are making things better for everyone else?


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